When it comes to your children, you want them to grow up to be confident, secure, happy, and self sufficient. You want to make sure that you do everything within your power to set them up with all the skills they will need to succeed in life. In short, you want to see them thrive. It isn't always easy to know what is best for children, especially when you are up against some of the difficulties that today's kids face. Those who have worked in the foster care industry know that abuse, neglect and behavior problems can put up roadblocks on a child's road to success.
Fortunately, there are a great many things that one can do to make sure that children have psychologically healthy experiences. What could be more classic than the family pet? Of course, having a dog can mean a great many things. You might have a working dog, owned by a farmer who helps in various herding activities. You might have a dog living in the suburbs, wearing NFL dog collars, whose only experience of running free is at the dog park. It doesn't matter, as long as the child develops a relationship with the dog.
Having a dog can help children develop a sense of responsibility. Taking care of the dog is perhaps the most obvious. Dogs need to be fed, they need water, they need to be walked. All of these are things that can be done by children, and can help children learn to be responsible, and to take pride in what they do. Knowing that they are successful caring for another being can also instill a lot of self assurance and confidence in children. You can also teach them about fiscal responsibility by having them save up an allowance to buy that Nascar dog collar or the MNB dog jerseys that they want to get for their four legged friend.
Studies have shown that children who live with or frequently see and interact with a dog have better social skills that those who do not. It would appear that learning to understand how a dog might feel (the dog is happy when you rub his back, the dog is unhappy when you pull his tail) helps children to empathize with other (human) children. They seem to be better at reading body language and anticipating how their actions will affect others. Dogs are good fun, and good for you- what more could you ask for?
