"How Can I Stop A Divorce?"

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If you want to stop a divorce and cannot do it on your own, seek some counseling. Find a mediator from your church or find a reputable counselor. Do not go to friends who may be well meaning. You do not want to envite them into your marital life.

Below are four suggestions on how to stop a divorce to improve the odds of successfully avoiding divorce.

Perhaps the first for you to know is the perfect marriage does not exist. Everyone makes mistakes and everyone has faults. In any situation where there is interaction there is prossibility of conflict. However, with understanding and consideration for each other those situations will always allow solutions and resolutions to rule supreme.

If you are wondering how to stop a divorce realize it takes effort to make make a marriage to succeed. The couple must learn to deal with the rough patches and overcome their problems. People make mistakes, work with your partner and overcome the problems you face, and you'll realize "it is possible for me to save my marriage." Or better yet, you will be saying, "It is possible for us to save our marriage."

If you think the next relationship is going to be better, think again. Each combination will have its unique set of problems and maybe those problems will be worse than the problems you now own.

Good communication is vital for all relationships. No one can read anyone elses mind and they should not be expected to. I do not know any situtation that cannot be resovlved with honest communication. Speak up if something is troubling you. But be respectful and considerate when expressing your feelings.

I am old fashioned I guess. Today's marriage gurus tell us to compromise. There are no winners in compromises. Both parties lose. Both are giving up something and both feel cheated in the end.

Truth be known, more marriage are destroyed because of compromise than ever were through cooperation.

There must be a leader in every organization, be it a family or a corporation worth billions of dollars. Someone has to make the decisions. There cannot be two heads on the same donkey. Some "one" person has to make the decisions and then see they are carried out. Someones must follow, without kicking and screaming all the way about sexual inequalities or whatever other diatribe is being spouted about today.

Discusssions should be found in every part of the family unit. Two heads are as good or better than four or more single heads. Cooperation by definition is working together for the common good of all. If you truly want a happy marriage, cooperate. Work together. Run it like any other corporation, but do not do it in a cruel and ruthless way.

Big Hint. There is only one reason for trouble in any relationship, marriage or otherwise. In a word, "Selfishness". This thing, "selfishness is twin sister or brother to Pride. If they are allowed free reign in your relationship you can expect major Troubles. With a capitol "T". If you have ever sat through some divorce proceedings you can see both pride and selfishness at work.

For any relationship to work all partners have to be fully committed in saving the relationship. When you enter into a marital relationship it is time to burn the bridges and ships so there is no turning back.

Working towards making a marriage work takes 100% commitment and it must be applied, "If I am ever to stop my divorce."

As I see it there is only one reason for divorce, one time physical abuse and/or long sustained emotional and psychological abuse by either one. It is in these cases that divorce makes sense.

Out side of these cases, divorce is not the answer. Instead, work with your partner to solve the issues plagueing your marriage, and hopefully you will no be asking how to stop a divorce.

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